Mistress Sybil's Birthday on 9/1 & Fall Travel
My birthday is coming up on 9/1. How are you going to show your devotion?
Hello my devotees:
What a luscious summer it’s been! I’ve been hard at work on my dissertation, but have nonetheless made the time for dizzyingly hot 1950’s role plays, heavy CBT and tease and denial with a 1970’s feminist flair, a devious double with Empress Wu that featured my sub drinking his own piss from the toilet, and a steamy all-night affair with one of my longest standing subs, featuring the inimitable Joey Nova.
Somehow I also had time to facilitate Veil Machine’s first panel on the gaze in sex worker art and co-produce Veil Machine’s first performance intensive for 15 sex working artists. Thank you to all my dear ones who donated to make the intensive possible — we couldn’t have done it without you.
Now it’s time to gear up for a dreamy fall!
My 30th Birthday ~ September 1st
It’s my birthday in only a few short weeks! I’m turning 30 and I am so, deeply excited to enter this new decade. My twenties saw me finding my life’s callings — as a Dominatrix, an academic, and an artist. I can only imagine what my thirties will bring.
For my birthday, I’ll be hosting an elaborate, hedonistic leather-clad play party & orgy for my dear ones. I rented out a gorgeous venue and will be sparing no expense in making it a night to remember. Of course, my fantasy is for the party to be funded entirely by my devotees.
» Contribute to my 30th Birthday Party on my wishlist here or by sending Tribute through CashApp. «
There are small gifts on my wishlist for those who prefer to show their devotion in more material ways as well.
Upcoming Travel: LA, DC, Chicago, & More

I’m excited to announce some travel dates for this fall:
LA: 9/28 - 10/3
DC: one weekend in October TBD - stay tuned for dates
Montreal: 11/2 - 11/4
Chicago: 11/10 - 11/15
Toronto: 11/16-11/9
To make a request, submit a session inquiry via my website.
Interview on Repression, Desire, & the Ethics of Non-monogamy
For all the subscribers who have joined since my last newsletter (or for those who could use a reminder), I had the pleasure of being interviewed on the podcast, Modern Anarchy. We had a generative conversation about desire, repression, normalization, and the ethical argument for having multiple sexual partners. We talked in depth about my own journey into kink and Dominance, and the role sex work has played in not only expanding my sexuality, but expanding my self.
Listen to it on Spotify or Apple Podcast.
Cruelly,
Mistress Sybil